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Is it possible to fall in love with your bestfriend?
October 18th, 2008
Is it possible to fall in love with your bestfriend? And if so, do you recomend it? Would dating your bestfriend damage your friendship and cause you to hate each other? How do you know you like your bestfriend as more than a bestfriend? I am bestfriends with the most wonderful guy I’ve ever meet. I’ve known him for almost three years now and we get along super well. He’s basically the guy of my dreams. He’s everything I could ever want in a guy plus more….. But what if we mess up our friendship????? HELP!!! •_•
-Cupcake
Dear Cupcake,
I wish Cupid would have referred you to me before Valetine’s so I could make your day even more special but Oh well!
So, is it possible to fall in love with your bestfriend? Sure it is possible. Why not? Anything is possible; people fall in love with their brothers and sisters too! There are even some people who prefer loving their pet animals over people.
Going after your brother/sister isn’t something I would condone, but considering your best friend as a possible candidate for something greater (aka boyfriend) is definitely worth considering.
If you currently trust and confide in each other, communicate your thoughts and feelings to one another, then you already have a great foundation for something even greater than being just friends. Tell your friend how you really feel about him (and hopefully he will do the same) and if you two decide to flourish your relationship into a blossom of love and happiness, just make sure you express your expectations and guidelines.
As long you communicate, I believe no one will get seriously hurt if the relationship doesn’t work out and you don’t have to worry about any of your precious belongings showing up on EBAY and Craigslist.
I wish I could give you a formula of some sort but there are plenty of past examples out there on what not to do such as: Britney and K-fed, Paris and some horny toad dude.
Hopefully I answered your question,
JC
P.S- If it doesn’t work out, I have some interested people lined up here. 
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